sex anykind

[dead sephiroth]

does anybody believe in sex befgore marriage

[priestess94]

no i donot get married first

and what the hell is with you and sex
?????

[unloved_forever]

does anybody believe in sex befgore marriage
I do.
I don't believe that you have to be married before you have sex.
Afterall, I don't want to get married and I don't intend on being a virgin forever obviously.

[Sweetie2393]

I do, but I think it should be with someone special, who you know your want to spend the rest of your life with.
But I'm only 14 so *shrugs* Who knows I could change my mind...

[priestess94]

Now That Is Just Sick

[shadowclips]

Yeah, waiting to get married first is stupid
Cuz who knows how long it will take

[Sweetie2393]

Now That Is Just Sick

...What is?

[priestess94]

SRRY THAT was for unloved_forever

and besides how is waiting stupid i mean that what makes it special i guess i may be young but still why would anyone want to get wasted when they arent married?????? if you do it when you are married there is no way you could get hurt cuz first of all you both waited so

[shadowclips]

and besides how is waiting stupid i mean that what makes it special i guess i may be young but still why would anyone want to get wasted when they arent married??????

Cuz some people may not get married for a long time, like until they are 30-40 who the **** would want to wait that long?

[Sweetie2393]

No, its not.
Alot of people do that, and its what she wants to do, so, yeah.

And I guess it could, but it happens alot now. ANd I agree with shadowclips, who knows when any of us will get married >>....

[Hikari Hoshi]

I deffinatly believe you should wait until you're married. it's so much more special if you only give yourself to the one person you truely love.

[priestess94]

thank you finaly some one agrees

[shadowclips]

why would anyone want to get wasted when they arent married??????

you will figure out the answer to that question, when you have sex :p

[unloved_forever]

Now That Is Just Sick
You're calling me sick?

[priestess94]

well i dont want to ever

[shadowclips]

well i dont want to ever

you dont ever want to have sex?
lol your'e funny

[Sweetie2393]

Everyone wants to have sex at one point >>...

[priestess94]

well i dont and whats so funny about it

[unloved_forever]

well i dont and whats so funny about it
Are you going to answer my question or just ignore me?

[shadowclips]

well i dont and whats so funny about it

trust me, you wont be staying with that decision for long
you will want sex at some point

[priestess94]

Are you going to answer my question or just ignore me?


no your not sick just ahhnvm

[Sweetie2393]

She was talking about you unloved...

Well, you'll probably want to when your older, maybe around 30 >>...

[shadowclips]

Well, you'll probably want to when your older, maybe around 30 >>...
At around 30 O.o
That would be a long time to wait

[unloved_forever]

no your not sick just ahhnvm
That's okay.

And I wouldn't go around saying you don't want to have sex because some day you will, when you're older.

[priestess94]

no never ever ok

[Sweetie2393]

o.o I was talking about her...
I wouldn't want to wait that long though >>...

[unloved_forever]

How many years do you have to wait until it's legal for you to have sex?

I've got 3months.

[priestess94]

who me
????????????????

[shadowclips]

How many years do you have to wait until it's legal for you to have sex?

I've got 3months.

it's legal here at my age, well if it's safe sex it's legal

[Sweetie2393]

I have four more years...I have to be 18...

[shadowclips]

there is a bar in my city that at 12:00 pm- 6:00 pm are kids hours, back when i was ten i went there with my soccer team, holy crap, i wetnt in the washroom, ( i knew there were condom dispenser things) i was so suprised, becuz, they weren't locked, they were gonna let 10 year olds buy condoms O.o

[priestess94]

umm...... weird

[Sweetie2393]

o.o nice and you live where exactly?

[shadowclips]

o.o nice and you live where exactly?

Edmonton (ha!!!! my city has the biggest mall in the world, it has roller coasters, a huge pool, a huge playground, a big inflated thign to jump on, with like 10 leves, over 1000 stores, a big movie theatre, a dragon model that actually blows fire, a skating rink, a stage for bands, an amusement park, and aquarium with sharks, seals, dolphins, turtle, alligators, selions, many fish, and PENGUINS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!) )There's also alot more, but i broke my finger so it hurts to type)

[Sweetie2393]

Lucky -.-...
I live in a city nicknamed Dorkville >>...
Its small and full of stuck up people -.-...

[shadowclips]

Lucky -.-...
I live in a city nicknamed Dorkville >>...
Its small and full of stuck up people -.-...

xD
Yeah i'm lucky, my city rulz

[Sweetie2393]

Yep you are :P

[shadowclips]

Yep you are :P

well, i can't think of anything to talk about now :/

[Sweetie2393]

Me either...
>.< I'm suposed to be putting the dishes away...ick...

[shadowclips]

Me either...
>.< I'm suposed to be putting the dishes away...ick...

ewwwwwwwwwwwwww

[Sweetie2393]

Mhm...>>...
So, whats new? I haven't talked to you in a loooong time.

[shadowclips]

Mhm...>>...
So, whats new? I haven't talked to you in a loooong time.

lots of stuff

2 of my best friends had a baby
im older now :O

well then, nvm, thats is not alot of stuff

[Sweetie2393]

Thats cool.
My friend is preg. And she got kicked out of school because of it o.o...

And I'm older too xD.

[shadowclips]

Thats cool.
My friend is preg. And she got kicked out of school because of it o.o...

And I'm older too xD.

kicked out of school??? O.o
ermmmm.... wierd

[Sweetie2393]

Mhm, they said its 'inapropriate(sp)'
So now her mom is homeschooling her...

[shadowclips]

Mhm, they said its 'inapropriate(sp)'
So now her mom is homeschooling her...

inapropriate
okays then..........
how old is she?
cuz my friend wasn't kcikd out, she is 17

[Sweetie2393]

Shes 18....

[shadowclips]

Shes 18....

okay then............
it's wierd, and unfaif

[shadowclips]

:/ i got to go, bye

[Sweetie2393]

Yeah.
Aw, alright, bye.

[NachtEngel]

i belive in sex after marriage it doesnt seem right before marriage i belive in waiting for that one special person who will rock your world :P

[zippythewild]

and what the hell is with you and sex
?????

Dead Sephiroth nevers stops thinking about me <his gf> there fore he never stops thinking about sex either lolz:D

I think it's smarter to wait until your married, if you don't want an accidental pregnancy to ruin your life, but then again sometimes impatience is more important being smart lolz

[unloved_forever]

i belive in sex after marriage it doesnt seem right before marriage i belive in waiting for that one special person who will rock your world :P

Just because you're married to someone, doesn't make them the right person or the person you will spend the rest of your life with. You might regret it.

[NachtEngel]

Just because you're married to someone, doesn't make them the right person or the person you will spend the rest of your life with. You might regret it.

well ur not just gonna get married for no aparrent reason dur... yeah i might regreat it but durring that time that person has to really mean something to u to get married to them

[unloved_forever]

well ur not just gonna get married for no aparrent reason dur... yeah i might regreat it but durring that time that person has to really mean something to u to get married to them
People get married for alsorts of different reasons, not just because of love.
What I ment was that if you fall out/argue with your husband/wife and decide to get a divorce. You might regret waiting until after marraige to loose your virginity to them becayse you'd hate them so much after the divorce.

[Caoko]

Hope I'm not too late or anything.
But, it really depends. If you love that person and figure you're gonna spend the rest of your life with them, sure, go ahead, have sex before marriage. But, pointless sex is... pointless. I mean, it's your life, go for it, but, there's all kinds of things that come into play. Sex is something that only people who love each other should do. Both parties should be ready for it, and should be willing to have sex. Of course, there has to be proper testing for diseases and such before such action is taken. And you know, if you don't feel like getting tested or anything, then don't have sex. And of course, use protection. no matter what. Don't wanna be gettin' preggy, if you're a girl. And you never know when the other person got their testing done. So, they might have a disease but just didn't have it at the time.

[dead sephiroth]

yes i believe in sex before marriage cuz u never no that person u hav sex with might be the right person

[unloved_forever]

yes i believe in sex before marriage cuz u never no that person u hav sex with might be the right person
Exactly what I was trying to say.

[dead sephiroth]

kk but i said it

[unloved_forever]

kk but i said it
Gawd, I'm not try to steal your credit for saying it or anything -_-

[morgan_1216]

if you wait till youre married to have sex then you seem like less of a slut. but i think its slightly pointless because so many people get divorced so what the point if you dont know they're that "special some one" ? i say have as much sex as you like just dont get an STD or have an unwanted baby!


I didnt know they had like laws about how old you have to be to have sex. i thought in most places some one over eighteen cant do it with a minor: or if you are 4years apart and at least one partner is a minor its illegal.

[sacora]

does anybody believe in sex befgore marriage
nope.i say you dont have to br maried
but im only 16...dont take my word...

[unloved_forever]

if you wait till youre married to have sex then you seem like less of a slut. but i think its slightly pointless because so many people get divorced so what the point if you dont know they're that "special some one" ? i say have as much sex as you like just dont get an STD or have an unwanted baby!


I didnt know they had like laws about how old you have to be to have sex. i thought in most places some one over eighteen cant do it with a minor: or if you are 4years apart and at least one partner is a minor its illegal.
I don't know about laws everywhere but in England you have to be 16 to have sex.
Also, someone 16 or over can't have sex with someone under 16.
That is only in the UK.

[dead sephiroth]

wow in louisiana sex can happen at any age as long as both aporve of the sex.

[sacora]

wow in louisiana sex can happen at any age as long as both aporve of the sex.
3,5,10!?!?!?!!?!?OMFG!!!!!!!thats wrong dude

[♥allie♥the♥emo♥]

okay im not
a virgin
im 18 and i lost
my virginity wen i was
15 but im not a slut i have
had the same boyfriend
since i was 13
so we both felt that
we were ready and we are in love
and always will be.


do you guys think thats
wrong.. i believe that if
yoo use protection
and you are ready
and your not getting
presured than
you are ready to have '
sex its a big commitment
but yoo wont regret it
lol i can say i regreted it
at first and thought he
was just using me for sex
but he isnt were still togehther
and i love him so much
and im gunna hold
on to him forever i have
never met another boy
like him and i know he
is the one i know it!!!!
we both know it....


your opinions?

[7000dominos]

does anybody believe in sex befgore marriage

Well...I believe it exists.

I also believe it it Biblically and morally wrong.

[koori*the*emo*angel]

does anybody believe in sex befgore marriage

i dont like it, if they get pregnant then the child suffers, i should know my parents never got married and now i have to use up my weekends going to my dads house. and now i have a half brother that i hate and another half brother comeing that i hope i wont hate...

[deathbytexas]

okay im not
a virgin
im 18 and i lost
my virginity wen i was
15 but im not a slut i have
had the same boyfriend
since i was 13
so we both felt that
we were ready and we are in love
and always will be.


do you guys think thats
wrong.. i believe that if
yoo use protection
and you are ready
and your not getting
presured than
you are ready to have '
sex its a big commitment
but yoo wont regret it
lol i can say i regreted it
at first and thought he
was just using me for sex
but he isnt were still togehther
and i love him so much
and im gunna hold
on to him forever i have
never met another boy
like him and i know he
is the one i know it!!!!
we both know it....


your opinions?

I agree completely. ^_^
Just so long as the participants are mature enough to know what they’re getting into and take the proper precautions, I see nothing wrong with sex before marriage. Besides, many relationships fail due to poor sex lives… IMO it’s wise to test those waters before making a lifelong commitment.

[dead sephiroth]

thx for replying

[morgan_1216]

im not a virgin, i lost it when i was 14. i was dating a guy 3 years older than me. it was a committed relationship, lasted for a year. im not with him now and im glad but i dont regret what i did with him, it was just an experience.

idealy i thought waiting is great, really it is. but when i stop and look at the world and the people in it, i dont see the point.

[au_Sudo]

Silly kids =3

If you wanna do it before marriage do it before marriage. But dont be a ho. xD

[morgan_1216]

are you calling me a hoe? or saying general, dont be one?

[au_Sudo]

are you calling me a hoe? or saying general, dont be one?

In general XD

I lost it when I was 14 too.. XD To an older person also ._.

[morgan_1216]

lol ok just had to clarify that. i mean i used to be all no im gunna wait, and then i got with some one and i was oh **** it! lol.

[au_Sudo]

lol ok just had to clarify that. i mean i used to be all no im gunna wait, and then i got with some one and i was oh **** it! lol.



yeah me too! I thought it was all disgusting and stuff. but i met this person and i was like 'ahh well.. we'll be together for ever but so it doesnt matter <33' but.. it didnt work like that lmao xD

[morgan_1216]

omg thats so funny !!!! i was the exact same way. man im only like 15 now but just looking back then im like wow im a dumb a$$

[au_Sudo]

omg thats so funny !!!! i was the exact same way. man im only like 15 now but just looking back then im like wow im a dumb a$$

XDD

Yeah .. Foreigners are so seductive~

[rainbubbles]

i do because if you had never had sex before and you married some person and you actually stay with them forever, then you would only have had sex with one person your whole life :O you would never get to experience any thing else, unless of course you cheat :P.

[dead sephiroth]

well thats true but sometimes also false

[LustfulKiller]

Hmm..Well for me it depends on how hott the guy is. If he's hott I wouldnt be able to help myself..; )

[twilightqueen13]

does anybody believe in sex befgore marriageI believe in Marige before Sex. I believe in that because that's what I how I was raised. And that what my religion says to do.

[ElmoGivesMeElectricShock]

does anybody believe in sex befgore marriage

Err...
I don't know...
It depends..
If I really love the guy then yes...
Otherwise probs not...

[dead sephiroth]

kk thx for ur opinion on the matter

[ElmoGivesMeElectricShock]

kk thx for ur opinion on the matter

No problem
I was bored anyway

[yuki_101]

does anybody believe in sex befgore marriage

naaa i dunt, totalli wrong in my opinion

[dead sephiroth]

kk thx u everyone who posted on this

[x~Melody~x]

no i donot get married first

and what the hell is with you and sex
?????

hahahahaha i agree

[Thinkbluethoughts]

Well...

I plan to wait until I'm married but who knows what will happen until then. I could meet someone I really like and...well you know. But if you're married hopefully it's with someone you love and care for and are willing to give away that special part of you. If not, well some people know they're really care for a certain person and do it anyway. Married or not. I think it's safer during marriage but who knows.

[Autumn_Dawn93]

does anybody believe in sex befgore marriage

i don't i mean i'm a christian so yes i will remain pure until marriage

[IYorEdElric]

does anybody believe in sex befgore marriage

yeah.
as long as you're safe about it.
I don't even care about the "love" part of it, just don't spread STDs or increase the population.

[Sadness_Of_The_Snow]

my mom always says "i want to see a ring before a grandkid" lol i'm not sure though...i'm only 14 so i have awhile to think about it.*thinking* *and anime boys aren't real so that sucks*

[Kawaii Princess]

I do......LOL.
I really dont see why mraaiadge is sooo important.
P.S This is going to be deleted by admins.

[jitsu]

i don't i mean i'm a christian so yes i will remain pure until marriage

wow autumn i never knew that that mean u have a strong will ..i now can tell that it is not by training ur body or mind u can raise ur will but it comes with u from childhood any way i'm sorry i tried to hold my self from sex b4 marriage but i couldn't so i'm not virgin but i believe in marriage b4 sex.

[Autumn_Dawn93]

yeah, but it's kinda hard because temtation is a b***h

[jitsu]

yeah, but it's kinda hard because temtation is a b***h

then have sex

[Autumn_Dawn93]

NO I can't

[jitsu]

NO I can't

ok then dont have sex then u say the imitation is ***** if i say have sex u say i cant choose one girl lol

[Autumn_Dawn93]

whatev i mean i'm trying but reall i'm only 14

[evanscense4]

my opinion?it's different for everyone,my advice,if you ARE going to ALWAYS be protected.i personally don't think i EVER want to 'do it' after seeing what happens afterwards 3 times...my god that was so gross....http://i155.photobucket.com/albums/s295/xTheOldYoungx/thsick.jpg

[salome23]

(Atheist)I don't believe in sex before the marriage my sister and my parents never did XD

[Switchblade-Symphony]

Reminds me of when I was perusing through a Seventeen magazine at the doctor's office, and I saw an article about the Silver Ring pledge (you know, the True Love Waits ring). I was reading the stories of the girls that were in it, and most of them were planning to get married very quickly, so they could have sex as soon as they could, but still keep up with their moral values by ensuring that they would have sex after marriage.

What is the point of that? If you aren't even going to bother waiting to get married, just so you can have sex, then how is that special? What makes that any different from premarital sex, other than chronology?

My opinion is to wait until you are physically and emotionally ready to have sex. You shouldn't have to be legally bound to someone in order to share your love and yourself with them.

[dead sephiroth]

Reminds me of when I was perusing through a Seventeen magazine at the doctor's office, and I saw an article about the Silver Ring pledge (you know, the True Love Waits ring). I was reading the stories of the girls that were in it, and most of them were planning to get married very quickly, so they could have sex as soon as they could, but still keep up with their moral values by ensuring that they would have sex after marriage.

What is the point of that? If you aren't even going to bother waiting to get married, just so you can have sex, then how is that special? What makes that any different from premarital sex, other than chronology?

My opinion is to wait until you are physically and emotionally ready to have sex. You shouldn't have to be legally bound to someone in order to share your love and yourself with them.

i agree with you there