Should I be blamed..?

[*SpElLcAsTeR*]

Okay, well. Something hardly anyone knows about me is, I have a twin sister. But, she died before she was born..3 minutes before me. I've never really thought about this, but I do pray for her. But..Is it my fault she's dead? If I'd just been born first..I'd be dead and she'd be alive..

[fighterkid]

Off course it's not your fault
* gives hug *

[GlitchGirl]

No, you did nothing and there was nothing you could have done anyway. You were a newborn.

If it does bother you still, let your life be a testament to her by living it to the fullest for her.

[*SpElLcAsTeR*]

Uhh, Fighter. I appreciate the concern but I feel uncomfortable when another guy hugs me..

Well, I guess I could do that. Don't know if that's enough though. She deserved a chance at life just as much as I did. Still, if she'd gotten this life instead of me. I'd be happy that I died so she could live.

[fighterkid]

Uhh, Fighter. I appreciate the concern but I feel uncomfortable when another guy hugs me..

Well, I guess I could do that. Don't know if that's enough though. She deserved a chance at life just as much as I did. Still, if she'd gotten this life instead of me. I'd be happy that I died so she could live.

whahhhaha
sorry, i always thought you were a girl :p >.<

[*SpElLcAsTeR*]

Wtf? WTF!?!?!?!??!? O_O!!!

[foxdragon]

How could you think that! You are not to blame! *huggles* Dont think that! :(

[fighterkid]

Wtf? WTF!?!?!?!??!? O_O!!!

i don't know why, but with some posters i just have that kind of a feeling, if they are boy or a girl >.<

don't blame me for my stupidness !!

[i am odie]

well look at it this way to, she could be happyer, you know watching over you, and stuff. and if it was her and not you she may feel the same way. so all in all you where powerless, but the fact that if you could you would have saved her mans your noble and stuff.

oh and dont feel bad about gender mix ups, people think im a guy all the time for some odd reson.....

[*SpElLcAsTeR*]

Eh, idk. Guess she's happier now.

[i am odie]

thats the way to think! now dont let it get you down. you can live enough for two people if you try hard enough!

[foxdragon]

Yea thats the way to think! *glomps!!!!!!*

[*SpElLcAsTeR*]

Uhh...A little hard to breathe people...o.o..Thanks though.

[i am odie]

dont kill 'em!!!!!

[*SpElLcAsTeR*]

Eh, it's okay. I'm 13. I can die peacefully.

[i am odie]

death is not the answer!!!!! and 13 is like the begining not the end!!!!!

[*SpElLcAsTeR*]

I have the mind of a 25 year old if that helps. o.o

[foxdragon]

lolz sure it helps!!

[*SpElLcAsTeR*]

Good. *dozes off* Holy crip he's a crapple! o.o

[foxdragon]

eh? *makes odd face and falls over*

[i am odie]

well im 15 with the mind of a 20 year old, but the personality of a 4 year old and who is crippled?

[*SpElLcAsTeR*]

Nice, and no one. Family Guy quote. o.o

[i am odie]

oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooh i luv that show, but im not always up to see it, highschool is murder!!!!!

[*SpElLcAsTeR*]

Lol. Home-school is good. =)

[i am odie]

if your blessed with parents who will teach you, if not sleep will be taken away slowly....

[gaarahinata]

Okay, well. Something hardly anyone knows about me is, I have a twin sister. But, she died before she was born..3 minutes before me. I've never really thought about this, but I do pray for her. But..Is it my fault she's dead? If I'd just been born first..I'd be dead and she'd be alive..

I don't even think your on the subject right now buuuuutt...xDD
No, your not to blame. It's deffanitly not your fault. It may be someone's but not yours! Who knows.. She could be watching you right now happy that you have such a life and are living hers up to.

[nooneshome]

Okay, well. Something hardly anyone knows about me is, I have a twin sister. But, she died before she was born..3 minutes before me. I've never really thought about this, but I do pray for her. But..Is it my fault she's dead? If I'd just been born first..I'd be dead and she'd be alive..




Well... Its Not Your Fault!


I Mean, I Was Taught, When a Young Child/Baby Died, Someone Needed a Miracle... Like, a Wife With Twelve Kids, Just found out her Husband Was Dieing...and She Needed a Miracle. So, GOd, Took THe Child's Sprit/Life, and Made it into a Miracle, Then, Gave That Life, To the Dieing Husband of that Wife With Twelve Kids....


So, If YOu Think of It the why I Thinking of it, You Sister Saved SOmeones Life....




DOes that make Sence?

[Thinkbluethoughts]

Okay, well. Something hardly anyone knows about me is, I have a twin sister. But, she died before she was born..3 minutes before me. I've never really thought about this, but I do pray for her. But..Is it my fault she's dead? If I'd just been born first..I'd be dead and she'd be alive..

I think it's called Vanishing Twin Syndrome or something when that happens. It has to do with one of the fetuses(?) being more dominate causing one of the two twins to...well...vanish. Or something like that. I guess you could check a site or something about it.

But it's not your fault. You had no control over what happened at all. I believe it's good you pray for her too.^-^

[i am odie]

see everyone thinks that the blame is not on you!

[Girl of your Dreams]

sry to hear that its not ur foult when u die and go to hevsn ull see her. its ok *hugs*

[*SpElLcAsTeR*]

Thanks to everyone else. Well, guess this thread can be closed. It's served it's purpose.