. . .Mellie-Chan Needs Dating Advice...

[nooneshome]

I REALLY DO!

Okay, so two years ago I went out with this guy who was One and A half year older than me. It was nice, he dated for six months. Then He broke up with me. Why? Cause he said he was gay. That was fine with me we still talked and All.

( HE HAD A SMOKING HOT BOYFRIEND!)

So now today were talking to each other at free period... Hes Telling me that he thinks he's not as much gay anymore more that hes, Bisexual...

And he Asks me out...

The Bell rang and hes just looking at me like he wants and answer...

I cover my Ears and scream 'I DON'T KNOW!'

and run out....


XD
(Typical Mell Here.)


So what should I do?

[xxShyGrlxx]

I say you should talk to him again. Tell him your sorry for your 'I dont know!' out burst. That might've upset him, you never know. First things first, apologize. Start a conversation, or ask if he still wants to go out with you- that depends if you want to be with him or not.

[chlois18]

Ok, I give the same advice as ShyGrl... I may not be the *best* resource, but I still know one or two good things.

Here's what I say, aside from seconding Shy. I say that you should agree to go on one date with him. Keep things on the surface though- act more like your hanging out with him as a guy friend, rather than potential boy friend.

My mom once had a Bi boyfriend, and the thing that you need to be careful with them is, according to her, is how they switch around. She says that Bi's are usually trying to find themselves, and they jump around from boy to girl and vice versa to see which type of relationship really feels better for them. He may be trying you again to get a fresher feeling of having a girl friend compared to a boy friend because he's comfortable with you and knows that you will probably be able to handle it if he goes back to somebody else.

So, yeah, my advice is, give it a shot, but keep it on the surface.