charlie!
03-25-2009, 01:31 AM
Okay, Charlie Spencer here asking for some serious help.
I've been talking to this amazing guy, Gunnar, since the the begining of the school year. We've known eachother since mid seventh grade but we didn't get eachother's digits until the begining of 2008.
All in all, he's like the best guy I've ever known. He's super sweet, super cute and super everything.
Well last week, I think it was Thursday, he was getting on my nerves alittle I won't tell why but whatever. So the seventh graders were on a field trip and it was just the upper classmen in the choir room and the teacher let's us run a muck on those days. One of my friends brought in a little toy bow and arrow thing and I decided to draw a face on the chalkboard and shoot at it alot with the toy. It was all fun until Gunnar found out. He was so mad at me he didn't talk to me for a whole day. Which might sound like a "get over it" but we talk EVERYDAY and ALL OF THE TIME no joke. So I was being taken over by Gunnar deprivation. It was horrid.
So anyway, today was pretty awesome because I got to see my family today and kind of babysit some of my baby cousins while the parents smoked it was a blast. But when I get home, Gunnar finally decides to text me saying that maybe we shouldn't date.
I literally felt my heart, ego and self-esteem drop. I started crying all over the place, it was a hot mess.
What do I do? He says we can still be friends, but here's the thing, he and I aren't even officially dating yet. His people are all paranoid about dating a middle schooler (I'm in the eighth grader believe it or not). And that when I'm in high school it's a done deal.
We've been waiting this whole time since we decided we wanted to date eachother, and I border line love this kid and he tells me it's not a good idea.
I'm totally crushed.
Help.
And please don't be mean, my friends won't even comfort me through this and I don't want it from strangers.
I've been talking to this amazing guy, Gunnar, since the the begining of the school year. We've known eachother since mid seventh grade but we didn't get eachother's digits until the begining of 2008.
All in all, he's like the best guy I've ever known. He's super sweet, super cute and super everything.
Well last week, I think it was Thursday, he was getting on my nerves alittle I won't tell why but whatever. So the seventh graders were on a field trip and it was just the upper classmen in the choir room and the teacher let's us run a muck on those days. One of my friends brought in a little toy bow and arrow thing and I decided to draw a face on the chalkboard and shoot at it alot with the toy. It was all fun until Gunnar found out. He was so mad at me he didn't talk to me for a whole day. Which might sound like a "get over it" but we talk EVERYDAY and ALL OF THE TIME no joke. So I was being taken over by Gunnar deprivation. It was horrid.
So anyway, today was pretty awesome because I got to see my family today and kind of babysit some of my baby cousins while the parents smoked it was a blast. But when I get home, Gunnar finally decides to text me saying that maybe we shouldn't date.
I literally felt my heart, ego and self-esteem drop. I started crying all over the place, it was a hot mess.
What do I do? He says we can still be friends, but here's the thing, he and I aren't even officially dating yet. His people are all paranoid about dating a middle schooler (I'm in the eighth grader believe it or not). And that when I'm in high school it's a done deal.
We've been waiting this whole time since we decided we wanted to date eachother, and I border line love this kid and he tells me it's not a good idea.
I'm totally crushed.
Help.
And please don't be mean, my friends won't even comfort me through this and I don't want it from strangers.