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Verii.Cherii
02-10-2007, 10:57 PM
IM pregnant help me im only 13:confused:

little_white_fox
02-10-2007, 10:59 PM
IM pregnant help me im only 13:confused:

are u sure?

Verii.Cherii
02-10-2007, 11:00 PM
Of course im sure

little_white_fox
02-10-2007, 11:01 PM
Of course im sure

oh my, how meny week do you have?

DarkStorm
02-10-2007, 11:03 PM
Okay, was it rape or was it consensual?

Verii.Cherii
02-10-2007, 11:03 PM
i have 6 weeks left!! I will tell u the story! I got my period 2 days before i made this really good guy friend! me and him went out (as friends) and he got kinda crazy!! How old r u

MewRebelz
02-10-2007, 11:05 PM
I don't know what to say........

Kagome_Higarashi
02-10-2007, 11:06 PM
neither do i........

little_white_fox
02-10-2007, 11:07 PM
i have 6 weeks left!! I will tell u the story! I got my period 2 days before i made this really good guy friend! me and him went out (as friends) and he got kinda crazy!! How old r u

well i am 15 but my sister had the same problem, six weeks till you get birth or six weeks since you got pregnant

DarkStorm
02-10-2007, 11:07 PM
Like sorry but if it's consensual i dont care.

kiki26:)
02-10-2007, 11:08 PM
IM pregnant help me im only 13:confused:

omg._. ..........

MewRebelz
02-10-2007, 11:09 PM
Demetri! Be nice! This is serious! I know that this doesn't concern you, but it would be nice to comfort her!

kittan
02-10-2007, 11:09 PM
why the **** are you telling us go tell a teacher or parent...i'm not being mean i'm being truthfull there really isnt anything anyone here can do

Kagome_Higarashi
02-10-2007, 11:09 PM
i have 6 weeks left!! I will tell u the story! I got my period 2 days before i made this really good guy friend! me and him went out (as friends) and he got kinda crazy!! How old r u

do your parents know?

unloved_forever
02-10-2007, 11:11 PM
I don't mean to sound unsensitive, but why did you go and get pregnant and then complain about it?

DarkStorm
02-10-2007, 11:12 PM
I mean the lass is 13, if she wants consensual underage sex at 13 and falls pregnant because they didnt use contraception let it be in her head.

kittan
02-10-2007, 11:12 PM
thats what i'm saying!!

Angel Dude
02-10-2007, 11:13 PM
jeez
ppl needs to noe how to control them selves
or at least use some flipin protection

kittan
02-10-2007, 11:16 PM
yes dont do the crime if you can't do the time...

unloved_forever
02-10-2007, 11:16 PM
If you didn't get raped, then this is 50% your own fault for not using protection. So stop complaining, kthanx.

Tracia
02-10-2007, 11:17 PM
How are we suppoused to help you, I'd like to know... We didn't help you spread your legs did we? Too bad you're only 13, but you should've thought about that before taking your clothes off. Now go tell someone who cares and can actually help you, like your parents, who are most likely to ground you for life if they don't throw you out the house for being so lightheaded about something so serious like sex. Sex is for grownups, so if you were old enough to get screwed, you're old enough to have a baby. Now shut up and save the complaints for the birth day.

MewRebelz
02-10-2007, 11:17 PM
I know what your saying, it was a bad decision, (if decided at all) but at least keep your comments to your self. That's all I ask. Jeez.

unloved_forever
02-10-2007, 11:18 PM
How are we suppoused to help you, I'd like to know... We didn't help you spread your legs did we? Too bad you're only 13, but you should've thought about that before taking your clothes off. Now go tell someone who cares and can actually help you, like your parents, who are most likely to ground you for life if they don't throw you out the house for being so lightheaded about something so serious like sex. Sex is for grownups, so if you were old enough to get screwed, you're old enough to have a baby. Now shut up and save the complaints for the birth day.
Totally agree.

Well said.

little_white_fox
02-10-2007, 11:18 PM
How are we suppoused to help you, I'd like to know... We didn't help you spread your legs did we? Too bad you're only 13, but you should've thought about that before taking your clothes off. Now go tell someone who cares and can actually help you, like your parents, who are most likely to ground you for life if they don't throw you out the house for being so lightheaded about something so serious like sex. Sex is for grownups, so if you were old enough to get screwed, you're old enough to have a baby. Now shut up and save the complaints for the birth day.

very nice tracia, very very nice said and you are very right

kittan
02-10-2007, 11:19 PM
cold but true tracia, if your not old enough to even buy your own food and sh.it like that then dont go out having sex!

Angel Dude
02-10-2007, 11:22 PM
which reminds me
ill be back
my best friend is "doing stuff" again
and i have to get him a condom be back in min

MewRebelz
02-10-2007, 11:25 PM
Nice, real nice people I alpaud you *Sarcasim*

unloved_forever
02-10-2007, 11:27 PM
If your not old enough to look after yourself (which you arent) then your not old enough to look after a baby.

little_white_fox
02-10-2007, 11:29 PM
hmmmmmmmmm my sister has been trew the same problem

Angel Dude
02-10-2007, 11:30 PM
i encourage...."pleasure" as long as you noe the consicences ((sp?)) it all good
and no one is to young to learn bout sex

teens do the opposite of wat parents say
so if parents told there kids its ok to do it
then there'll be less kids to young having kids
sorry if this doesnt make sense i cant type wat i think

unloved_forever
02-10-2007, 11:33 PM
i encourage...."pleasure" as long as you noe the consicences ((sp?)) it all good
and no one is to young to learn bout sex

teens do the opposite of wat parents say
so if parents told there kids its ok to do it
then there'll be less kids to young having kids
sorry if this doesnt make sense i cant type wat i think
It makes sense.

little_white_fox
02-10-2007, 11:34 PM
i encourage...."pleasure" as long as you noe the consicences ((sp?)) it all good
and no one is to young to learn bout sex

teens do the opposite of wat parents say
so if parents told there kids its ok to do it
then there'll be less kids to young having kids
sorry if this doesnt make sense i cant type wat i think

don`t worry it makes sence

kittan
02-10-2007, 11:34 PM
i cant write what i think either but thats because i have a personality disorder...but what you wrote makes sense to me

Verii.Cherii
02-10-2007, 11:36 PM
well i am 15 but my sister had the same problem, six weeks till you get birth or six weeks since you got pregnant

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Six weeks till i give birth! Also how old is ur sister?

Tracia
02-10-2007, 11:38 PM
Consecuences... i think.

People can learn about sex at a very young age, even early childhood, but that doesn't mean you have to go out an try it.

People can have sex a very young age, and puberty is a very tempting time, but that doesn't mean you must go out and try it.

You can have sex for any reason you want, but at least think with your head, not with your panties.

Reverse psicology is not really a fool-proof theory. Hormones can be very tricky and puberty is where you should learn to control yourself, and that's where parents and friends come into the part. You should talk about it, but not going around letting people get in your pants just because.

I'm sooooooo not against sex, just against those who do it as if it was a walk in the park... it's not a walk in the park, it's an extreme sport, deadly like climbing...

little_white_fox
02-10-2007, 11:39 PM
well i am 15 but my sister had the same problem, six weeks till you get birth or six weeks since you got pregnant

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Six weeks till i give birth! Also how old is ur sister?

well now she is 27, but she had the same problem when she was 14

Angel Dude
02-10-2007, 11:44 PM
Cherii
if you want to keep the kid keep it
have the father help
if he doesnt WHAT A BASTARD!!!
if you dont want it...... cant have abortion so orphenage

Tracia
02-10-2007, 11:46 PM
Okay, it's obvious that there is no turning back, and I wonder how come you have waited that long and what you've done to hide it. It's kinda hard to hide a pregnancy when it's already in week 34. Are you that fat?
Sorry, out of subject.
Anyway, what would you prefer to do? Wait till the day of the birth when you're dying from pain and your parents hear about it from a doctor? It's an option, but not a good one. You messed up twice, cos you should've told them earlier, like.. in week number 6 or 7. Now you just gotta face it all in a bunch instead of one thing at a time. Sorry girl, but you gotta grow up very very very quickly now, cos you ain't recovering your family's trust in you and now there's a life that will depend on you, rather you like it or not.

Angel Dude
02-10-2007, 11:50 PM
i would help you raise the kid but i live somewhere else
i raised my baby bro by myself
so i would help but i cant

unloved_forever
02-10-2007, 11:54 PM
i would help you raise the kid but i live somewhere else
i raised my baby bro by myself
so i would help but i cant
But you're not the Father of the baby.
It's his responsibility just as much as hers to look after the baby.

Afterall, it takes two to tango :P

Angel Dude
02-10-2007, 11:56 PM
even if its not my kid i'd help as much as i can

Tracia
02-10-2007, 11:56 PM
Come on! Don't be so naive!
Don't count on him. No matter what he says. Don't count on him.

Angel Dude
02-11-2007, 12:02 AM
watch talkin bout!?
wait ill be back need to change my music

Tracia
02-11-2007, 12:04 AM
I meant don't count on the father of the baby, not Angel Dude...

Angel Dude
02-11-2007, 12:09 AM
yea usually da father bales out
b!tch...............

Tracia
02-11-2007, 12:28 AM
Did you called ME b!tch?? ... lol Long time nobody clled me that.

Angel Dude
02-11-2007, 12:31 AM
sorry i couldnt help it
and look i made it work b!tch
the i is upsides down

Gothanimedollfreak
02-11-2007, 12:36 AM
IM pregnant help me im only 13:confused:

I'm sorry but there's not much I can do for you...please tell someone. Maybe a parent or teacher...i'm so sorry.

Verii.Cherii
02-11-2007, 05:51 AM
thnx for pplz that have given support but for the other B!tches that are just telling me like sex if for adults i kno that!! I didnt chose to have this baby! And Krish bailed owt and aint talking to me!!

Angel Dude
02-11-2007, 05:54 AM
fathers a b!tch
i like the i its upside down

Verii.Cherii
02-11-2007, 05:58 AM
fathers a b!tch
i like the i its upside down

Yea my parents kno and told me that its my problem and i shudnt have dun it if i couldnt face what the outcome would be

Gothanimedollfreak
02-11-2007, 05:59 AM
thnx for pplz that have given support but for the other B!tches that are just telling me like sex if for adults i kno that!! I didnt chose to have this baby! And Krish bailed owt and aint talking to me!!
What an @$$hole.

fathers a b!tch
i like the i its upside down
*Anime sweatdrop* Ummm...

Verii.Cherii
02-11-2007, 06:00 AM
my parents kno

Gothanimedollfreak
02-11-2007, 06:05 AM
my parents kno

What did they say?

Angel Dude
02-11-2007, 06:08 AM
my parents would kick me out of da house and tell me "go take care of your kid ur da father"
and den i dunno

Gothanimedollfreak
02-11-2007, 06:12 AM
my parents would kick me out of da house and tell me "go take care of your kid ur da father"
and den i dunno

Really? My mom would be upset and my dad would try to comfort me. My mom would come around evantually though...

Angel Dude
02-11-2007, 06:27 AM
all my parents is going to do is
go like "if your old enough for a kid then ur old enough to care for yourself"

Gothanimedollfreak
02-11-2007, 06:41 AM
all my parents is going to do is
go like "if your old enough for a kid then ur old enough to care for yourself"

My mom would cry...-.-" I hate when people cry...

Angel Dude
02-11-2007, 06:56 AM
i dont care
buh bye me go nite nite

Gothanimedollfreak
02-11-2007, 06:57 AM
i dont care
buh bye me go nite nite

Okay, bye.

kittan
02-11-2007, 01:00 PM
my dad would just ignore it and my mom would comfort me but...i really dont know from there

Zippy_girl
02-11-2007, 01:07 PM
IM pregnant help me im only 13:confused:

Just go see a dctor. That happened to a friend of mine, and she went to the doctor

Sweetpeach
02-11-2007, 01:13 PM
My gosh. I don't know how to help you, sorry.

My mum would either murder me or just kick me out and leave me.
My dad would move house somewhere far away. He cant handle me anymore. And I'm only 15.

+CottonCandyDuckies+
02-11-2007, 03:05 PM
I hate to be mean, but this sounds like a personal problem. None of us know you personally so there isnt anything we can do. Your story is kind of vague.

If he was a good guy friend, things wouldnt have gotten 'crazy'

Im not sure if this is the whole story ...

kittan
02-11-2007, 04:34 PM
candy is correct what exactly led him to be "crazy" and to add i find that the word crazy is very uncalled for -.-

Tracia
02-11-2007, 11:49 PM
Me B!tch huh? For what? F0r making a notice of how stupid you were? I'm sorry am I being mean? lol

okami-san
02-13-2007, 06:39 AM
Me B!tch huh? For what? F0r making a notice of how stupid you were? I'm sorry am I being mean? lol

No your not being mean Tracia.. that was VERY stupid of you to go out and get pregnant at 13.. how very Naive and dumb.. sorry if im being a complete and total b!tch about it but it was a stupid move and now your gonna have to deal with it so i wish you luck.... Oh! and if that @sshole of a father doesnt step up to the plate then file a d@mn child support case on his dumb sex crazed self! He deserves it for deciding to lay with a 13 year old girl.. Quite frankly i dont think CHILDER should have CHILDREN... its a very bad concept if ya ask me.. and you were kinda asking for negative comments by putting this up her, i mean everyone on dollwiz isnt hunky-dorry-happy go lucky nice ya know?... Now exscuse me while I get some rest.

Gothanimedollfreak
02-14-2007, 06:44 PM
Uh-huh. Tell her how stupid she is, that's BOUND to make her feel better! Guys, shut the hell up! Like she doesn't feel bad enough already, you freakin' beasts! Why are you here if you're just gonna tell 'er she's stupid!? She's looking for advice, not for you b!tches to curse at her!

kittan
02-14-2007, 06:47 PM
now that i have gotten all my opinions out i believe freak is correct in times of hardship man must show compasion to their fellow man so be ****ing nice god damm it!!!!!

Tracia
02-14-2007, 07:52 PM
Being nice to someone like her who has actually even hidden it for like 7 months and now shows up to solve an unsolvable problem with complete strangers? And I have to comfort her? Yeah, right. I would give a bit of comfort to one OF MY FRIENDS, and if I'm a b!tch for being honest, I'm afraid I'm gonna be a damn b!itch forever. I have no reasons at all to be hipòcritical and fake about something so cruel. She made a mistake anybody else could've done, but making common mistakes doesn't make her less stupid. Call "beast" to your mother, cos and advice doesn't have to be flowered and pretty, and I, without even knowing who the little stupid ho was, gave it to her. Perhaps the only serious advice she could've gotten in this place. That is real life, and I'm sorry she jumped into it so quickly.

okami-san
02-14-2007, 09:27 PM
Being nice to someone like her who has actually even hidden it for like 7 months and now shows up to solve an unsolvable problem with complete strangers? And I have to comfort her? Yeah, right. I would give a bit of comfort to one OF MY FRIENDS, and if I'm a b!tch for being honest, I'm afraid I'm gonna be a damn b!itch forever. I have no reasons at all to be hipòcritical and fake about something so cruel. She made a mistake anybody else could've done, but making common mistakes doesn't make her less stupid. Call "beast" to your mother, cos and advice doesn't have to be flowered and pretty, and I, without even knowing who the little stupid ho was, gave it to her. Perhaps the only serious advice she could've gotten in this place. That is real life, and I'm sorry she jumped into it so quickly.

THANK YOU TRACIA!.... You are bringing some reality to this girl... Look being nice all the time isnt going to help people.. Tell them the cold facts so they dont go out and do something stupid like this again!.. making her feel all buttery and innocent will make her think that this mistake is alright but guess what.... ITS F***ING NOT!

Gothanimedollfreak
02-15-2007, 12:00 AM
SO I'M THE BAD GUY FOR TRYING TO BE NICE TO SOMEONE WHO IS UPSET!? SCREW THAT! You guys just...have to try and be nice. Please. This girl is in trouble. We have no right to judge her and IF you're as good as you guys say, you'd be understanding. She's just a child who got a little lost. Be nice for once.

Tracia
02-15-2007, 03:03 AM
I'm not trying to make anyone the "bad one" and I'm not her mother to guide her. Maybe the way I say things for you sounds horrible, but those are the way things are going to be. I know she knows that, but she's in a point where she needs more truth than fiction. I'm not going to try and make her feel any better, it's not my job and either my will. Also, I never said my words were comforting, but someone had to make a point in the middle of a crowd saying: Awww that's so baaad.. awww that's so.. whatever... You want to make ME the bad guy? I've got nothing against that. I know she knows what she did was wrong and stupid, but I'm not trying to point it out in red, just to make her open her eyes (hers and any others) to help her see the new world she just got into. Life ain't easy, specially not with a baby. So sorry for her that now she has to worry about another innocent life when she can't even clean her own ass.
I see things like this quite often here. 12 year old girls, 11 year old girls pregnant!! That's ridiculous! And is hard, and it's somehow pathetic, and it's also heartbreaking, but I'll tell you one thing, being "nice" to them doesn't really help. They are no longer children who killed a fish on purpouse, they girls that are to become mothers. There are no longer room nor time for them to be children. She'll be very lucky if her parents support her and help her, but what if they don't? She has to consider that chance and face it if she has to, cos without them she'll be alone and then she'll say "nobody told me". No, gothic. I cannot be the kind of "nice" you want. And honestly, I don't care if you dont like it, I think I did my part even when you think that's b!tchy. Being called that just told me I said the right things, cos nobody accepts raw truth like it is.

okami-san
02-15-2007, 03:09 AM
Please dont pull that 'Be nice for once' crap on me cuz im frickin ALWAYS nice.. I have the right to be realistic every now and then.. I mean come one.. Its heartbreaking that she has to deal with it on her own but it wasnt ME who layed down and got pregnant now was it?.. NO.. And im not the bad guy.. its MY opinion and its my right to express it.. Noone's dying because of my words, im not inflicting physical harm to anyone.. Maybe emotional but that'll shock her back into reality..... Thats lke me going to someone who just raped a child and is about to go to jail, yet they are crying their eyes out.. you wouldnt give them any sympathy now would you?.. I hope not.. Its the same concept.. Two different situations with the same concept.. they knew what they did, they knew they were doing it and now they must pay the price...

Tracia
02-15-2007, 03:29 AM
Easy, okami. Apparently, GothanimeFreak is a 10 year old emo boy...

okami-san
02-15-2007, 03:34 AM
Easy, okami. Apparently, GothanimeFreak is a 10 year old emo boy...

im sorry Tracia im just not in a very good mood today and i have the tendancy to vent my anger... PLease exscuse me.

Tracia
02-15-2007, 03:36 AM
It's okay, I just told you cos I just knew and din't know if you knew-

okami-san
02-15-2007, 03:38 AM
It's okay, I just told you cos I just knew and din't know if you knew-

No i didnt.. thank you for the imformation.. Im going to withdraw from this thread before i (God forbidd) Influence someone to hurt themselves.. Arigato.^^

Gothanimedollfreak
02-15-2007, 03:40 AM
Okay okay! >< I get where you guys are coming from. She did something stupid she needs to know that. I think she may have punished herself enough though. You're right, it's NOT okay. It was possibly the most stupid thing a 13-year-old girl could do. I just wanted to make her feel better since I knew everyone else would be willing to give her a swift kick in the ass. But then I saw her freak out and I felt bad so I freaked out. Sorry. And I'm not saying you guys aren't nice. Okay? She did something totally dumb. She should've been on the pill or something. Oh and, I'm a girl, thanks.

okami-san
02-15-2007, 03:43 AM
Okay okay! >< I get where you guys are coming from. She did something stupid she needs to know that. I think she may have punished herself enough though. You're right, it's NOT okay. It was possibly the most stupid thing a 13-year-old girl could do. I just wanted to make her feel better since I knew everyone else would be willing to give her a swift kick in the ass. But then I saw her freak out and I felt bad so I freaked out. Sorry. And I'm not saying you guys aren't nice. Okay? She did something totally dumb. She should've been on the pill or something. Oh and, I'm a girl, thanks.

i truly am sorry Gothanimefreak for both my crude words and bad behavior... Do not acknowledge my existance on this thread.. thank you.

Tracia
02-15-2007, 03:43 AM
OH, it's okay. but you do think we ain't nice.
oh.. also sorry for the boy thing. You're a 10 year old emo girl... XP

Okami! lol that's terrible! You don't take yourself back like that.

Gothanimedollfreak
02-15-2007, 03:44 AM
i truly am sorry Gothanimefreak for both my crude words and bad behavior... Do not acknowledge my existance on this thread.. thank you.

Please excuse mine as well, I'm very sorry.

Gothanimedollfreak
02-15-2007, 03:46 AM
OH, it's okay. but you do think we ain't nice.
oh.. also sorry for the boy thing. You're a 10 year old emo girl... XP

Okami! lol that's terrible! You don't take yourself back like that.

I DID think it was kinda mean at first but I do realize that she needed it.
No, I'm not emo. Thanks though.

okami-san
02-15-2007, 03:47 AM
OH, it's okay. but you do think we ain't nice.
oh.. also sorry for the boy thing. You're a 10 year old emo girl... XP

Okami! lol that's terrible! You don't take yourself back like that.

I never said I didnt MEAN what i said, lol, I just said to forgive me for how very crude and heartless it was.... But I seem to be acting like a cold hearted b!tch lately so its no surprise to me anymore. -_-

Tracia
02-15-2007, 03:48 AM
I don't think they'll hate you for that... yet.. lol

okami-san
02-15-2007, 03:49 AM
I don't think they'll hate you for that... yet.. lol

Lol^^ Very well put Tracia.. :p

atzelea_kun
03-22-2007, 06:57 AM
O_o.This might be kind of inappropriate to put on a forum.And tell random people,you don't really know that kind of business(no offence to you random people).I mean,don't just go off telling people you had sex and your pregnant.AND YOU GOT YOUR PERIOD!For the love of the holy cow.Thats your OWN business.

-_-My opinion has been stated.